How To Stop Guys Asking For Money In Exchange For Sex
Why I never pay for sex and do this instead!
"Not paying!" - and yes I am well aware that many people pay for sex out of convenience because it is a quick fast track to access to people who meet you professionally instead.
I am not judging this. The very few times I actually did pay escorts or massage guys - on professional websites and NOT on dating apps like Grindr or something, was fun. However, I have setup a system using smart AI strategies and mostly get enough sex without paying for it.

I also offer PAID sex massages and tantra sessions with my side hustle and have worked as full time escort 20 years ago with a professional escort agency and worked in the porn industry and know how to present myself professionally, mind you. :-)
I personally have a different approach to sex dating and paying for it.
I already pay enought for dating apps themselves, and when I see guys - especially if they even use free accounts when I have a paid VIP account to support the dating platform itself (after all it costs a lot to run theses sites, and yes even the dreadful greedy Grindr website is no exception of that).
This is an important point for me: if you are abusing platforms for contacting me when I pay them to have an ad-free and escort-free experience I will report you, every time.
My Philosophy about Sex And Exchanging Money:
Does the teacher pay the student or does the student pay the teacher?
Funny enough when I get those young guys that think just because you are older YOU HAVE TO PAY, I have to laugh about this naive view. So I always hit them (if not blocking and reporting them immediately) with the teacher-student question.
I provide accomodation/hotel and a few drinks - if that is not enough the other person is not really valueing what I am already providing. I rather prefer people meeting me because they are INTO ME and keep it straight forward like that!
Of course if you are a younger you can find your own reasons not paying for sex, and one important is your self worth.
Your self worth is a very important thing that should be never up for sale. The power games coming along with people that ask for money are often very tiring and one small payment can lead to bigger ones - without the guarantee that they actually perform.

HOWEVER...
There is still cost associate to having great sex to be considered
While I do not pay for sex, I kind of still "pay for sex" with associated costs for paying dating apps, networks, AI tools, running my own websites like cumplaybook.com and swallower.dad and paying for privacy options.



